I know circumstances don't matter, and that you shouldn't focus on the 3D, but I still find it difficult to trust that everything is going to work out fine just by manifesting and not be in contact with my sp.
About a month after we started seeing each other he told me that through his whole life he had relationship issues, and that he tend to escape relationships when they get to the serious stage. He also told me he gets nervous and pulls away because of his anxiety problems when it comes to relationships. I also know he has been through some really serious trauma in a younger age.
Until recently we where in contact, but since I was the one who started to reach out more often than he did, I decided to take a step back because I didn't feel like he makes the enough effort at the moment. I started manifesting, not focus on the old story and instead create a new one, where he is free from childhood trauma and is everything I need from a partner, but I can't seem to fully trust it enough just yet. Something in me is scared that what if I'm doing the wrong thing, instead of for continue to stay in touch with him or to have a difficult conversation where I tell him that I have feelings and want him in my life, but that he needs to get help for his problems.
Is there anyone out there that has experienced a similar situation with an sp? Should I continue the no contact and persist in the manifestation, have a talk with him or just let it go? Can you heal someone elses relationship patterns and traumas without actually being in contact with them?